” “Dating for 40 is extremely difficult” “Wasteland if you’re over 45” “It’s great for my 27-year-old daughter, but awful for me, her 54-year-old mom.” “Men in Charlotte are too buttoned up, too shy, etc.
With so many people marrying young or in serious relationship, it’s not a great city for singles in my opinion.” “I’m sure I’m just looking in all of the wrong places, but as a young, successful, outgoing female, it is very hard to find mature, dateable guys here.
Women are looking for men with money.” “What happened to Southern Charm?
” “Lots of attractive, available, stable men (from a female perspective).
I used to live in Charleston and the dating scene was the worst.” “Seriously.
Every guy I meet is so invested in this bizarre idea of masculinity and vanity and traditional gender roles that say I’m supposed to look a certain way and talk a certain way and act a certain way, that I feel like there’s not any room for me to just be myself.
Finding a person who is willing to devote time to another person is extremely hard to find.” “Same people.
I’ve found that it’s like a big small city where everyone is looking to date but no one is looking to commit.” “CLT is a city of young professionals.
I’m fairly social, but nobody seems to approach anyone anymore.
Too many apps.” “There aren’t a lot of options to meet black professionals that also want a black professional.” “As a gay male, difficult to find men with ambition, education, intellect.” “I was 29 when I moved to Charlotte 10 years ago and I moved from SF.
I ultimately had to turn to e Harmony.” “Online dating = B .
Real World Dating = D .” “Better for men than for women.” “Creativity, guys…not Netflix and chill.” “LAME; as a 31 year old single woman, every man I encounter is living the “cushy single boy lifestyle,” which I have determined is a result of: men being paid way too much in their current jobs, being way too comfortable being single (even though they say “they want a relationship”), and then when said relationship happens realizing it’s cramping their “cushy single boy lifestyle.” Needless to say – so grim on that front.” “Every man seems to be married, and if he isn’t married, he is not looking to date.” “Straight female here – there’s a severe shortage of really interesting, multi-faceted, and insightful men in this town.