You can prop up his head and lower back with pillows so he has a better view while you're down between his legs." —Lou Paget "Here's a tip to make yours and his orgasms more intense, plus help each of you last longer before exploding. Before either of you orgasm, stop intercourse or touching yourselves directly and switch gears.You might pull away and give each other a massage for a few minutes. Keep bringing yourselves close to orgasm, building to that peak, so that by the time you do finally climax, your orgasms will be all the more explosive." —Debora Peterson "Use each piece of furniture for a different sexual act or position." —Judy Kuriansky, Ph D, author of "Most men are visually oriented.You might consider leaving some lights on and asking him to watch while you're performing oral sex or having intercourse or even when you're getting ready to go to bed with him.Have sex under the piano, on a chair, and in front of a window.Over the course of a relationship, you will have created sexual memories, which means your home will be a more eroticized environment." —James Petersen, senior staff writer for (Dutton, 1997) "Live in the surprise of the moment — you never know when you're going to feel that special intimacy that is so connected to deep and wonderful sex.This type of nonverbal feedback can be so helpful to a guy who's doing his best to please you." —Paul Joannides "When your partner is masturbating you, ask him to tug playfully on your pubic hairs.This adds a slight feeling of tension that turns on many women." —Cricket Richmond "Use pillows.
Ask your man to run the bristles over your breasts and entire body — the sensation is truly erotic.
You can also add a little pulsing while twisting." —Lou Paget "Getting your man to masturbate while you're also fondling his penis is a huge turn-on for both you and your man.
Begin by watching a sexy video like (If you don't want to hunt these down at your local video store, order erotic movies through The Sexuality Library at 800-289-8423.) Ask him to act out some of the moves in the movie." —Cricket Richmond "To help him best delight you with his hands, provide lots of coaching and be patient.
He should brush gently around your vaginal area, especially the opening.
Then you can stimulate his body — try focusing on his nipples.