Many guys face this emotional challenge early on in their dating lives before they have had any sexual experience with women and when they are still virgins.They start going out with a girl, they start liking her and develop feelings for her.As much as you might like her and be crazy about her, and as much as you might think that she is one of a kind – she is perfect.Guess what – sooner or later you will realize that just like any other relationship, this dating situation is not perfect either.But once you have a child, you cannot take it back. Third, single mothers profoundly misunderstand men. There are few men who are overjoyed to spend their blood, sweat and tears on some other guy’s genetic offspring. A woman who cares so little about her children, her own prospects, and her future husband is NOT going to make a great wife. Oh, and in return, you have to make HER the center of your life. When you meet a divorced single mother, immediately start looking for the flaw. Something that drove another man to pledge his undying love to her, to have and to hold, from this day forth, and then sometime later decide “fuck this shit. Be very cautious around a woman who takes none of the blame for her failed marriage.You might not be the FIRST man she blames all her problems on, but you sure as hell can be NEXT. On the whole, give single and divorced mothers a pass. Little girls long for daddies as much as little boys. The children of single mothers have already been wounded so deeply by the lack of a father. She probably has 50 guys just like you that want to save her from this horrible, awful world of debauchery. The seedier strip clubs generally have girls that have more problems.
If you ever find yourself referring to a woman whose husband died on a battlefield as a single mother, you should immediately pour Tabasco sauce into your eyes, because you deserve to weep all the tears I’m certain she has.It will only make things more difficult for both of you the first time you have sex.You must stop seeking and expecting perfection from every aspect of your dating situation and of the girl you are with.This internal battle that the virgin guy might have in this situation is important for him to overcome so he doesn’t ruin an otherwise good situation with the girl that he likes so much and that he can enjoy developing his relationship and sexual intimacy with her.If you are a guy who faces the above challenges, I would like to suggest to you two very effective things that you can do to overcome this problem: Why? Her sexual experience will help both of you during the first time that you have sex with her.