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Being separated and not dating is one of the hardest temptations to resist. You'll also make your decision about more than just what you want.
A more accurate term for 'separated' in most of these cases would really be 'separating,' since few of these people are actually through their divorces or have completely ended their previous relationships.
One of the most common temptations people fall for when a relationship is ending is the desire to find a new love - Often these people have been unhappy and missing love, companionship and sex for a longtime, and so there's a real pent-up, unmet need for love.
once its final though, go for it LOL Can this backfire on me? I can see the ex coming after me with a knife or gun. Additionally, I haven't asked him any details about the divorce, I told him he can always talk to me about it when he is ready. Ask him for details, ask if he's got kids, ask him if he wanted this separation or was it his wifes idea, and really listen to what he's saying, not what you want to hear.
Another problem with dating a "currently separated" person is that even if they really are in the process of getting a divorce, you are probably a rebound who's going to be given the boot once the divorce happens.