It doesn't matter if I've held hands or kissed at the end of the date. This is a hard question to answer, but I will give it my best.
Always the next few days after the second date its the same "You're a really nice guy, but I felt no spark, there was no chemistry there". A little a hole behavior can work just don't go overboard. First of all either you have chemistry with the person or you don't.
Each time I read them I find myself filled with warm happy feelings and a reaffirmed appreciation for my husband.
It could be the song you danced to on your wedding day or a song that always reminded you of each other.
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Then we got engaged and they returned as we walked around hand in hand with our fiancés excited about the new chapter of our lives with them.
Again the flutters became less fluttery until of course, we said I do.
Please help with this - A big question maybe, but a helpful answer could change my life - so please help !!!!! With my husband, I just knew he was the one for me pretty much from the beginning. A little a hole behavior can work just don't go overboard. My husband is very confident and to me that is a turn on.And while the causes for a loss in spark vary from couple to couple the reality is that many couples struggle to get it back. What if getting the spark back in your marriage doesn’t require you to move mountains but to make just enough effort to bring back the butterflies and get the spark going again.Here are 12 ways to get the spark back in your marriage: Visit the place where you first met, went on your first date, where you two got engaged or maybe where you first whispered the words “I love you.” Be sure to pick a place that holds special meaning for you both.I'm someone of average looks and got some things going for me as people have told me!! Recently though I've actually managed to get some feedback and been told the usual softener "You're a really nice guy" but the clincher "but there's no spark, don't feel any chemistry".So I'm asking what is this mysterious spark all about? What character trates do some people have that create this spark - afterall some people are far more successful with women than others and I really am sick of being left on the shelf!!